Super Parent

Wanted: Super Parent

Many of our children are facing extraordinary challenges in the world
today. They will require more than "ordinary parents." They will
require what we like to call "super parents." This article will explain
what it means to be a "super parent."

Recently I was reading an article about some kids who had gotten into some
trouble with the law. I couldn't help but think of the many times I have
had parents in my office, often in tears, pleading for some way to help
their children out of a particular circumstance they had gotten themselves
into. Many times I have heard parents say out of frustration, "What can be
done?" They then go and do nothing.

I must agree that parenting a child, especially a teenager, can be
difficult. However, if we parents can stay on track, and focus time and
energy on our children, many of the things that can be a deterrent in the
lives of our teens simply don't happen. Why don't they? Because you, the
Super Parent, deflect these possibly dangerous situations.

Let me share an example with you regarding what it takes to be a Super Parent:
One teenager decided to skip school and "go out" during a particular class.
The policy of the school is to call home and notify a parent when their
child isn't in class. Many parents who receive this call simply ignore
the situation. Some take the time to talk with their children and
"make them promise to never do it again."

However, the "super parent" does something out of the ordinary. He does
something that will stick with his child, so that if their child is thinking
about trying it again, they'll think twice. I had one parent actually come
to school and sit in the class with his daughter without telling her he
would be coming. SURPRISE!

You should have seen the girl's face. "Dad, what are you doing here?" The
reply came with a soft smile from the parent, "I just wanted to make sure
you made it to class today." The message had been delivered, and this young
lady never skipped my class again. Kudos to that Super Parent!

The age of passive parenting has long since been over. With crime, drugs,
and even internet pornography on the rise, we must become Super Parents to
help our children avoid such dark corners that can tarnish and even ruin
their lives. This means that we need to keep our eyes open for any type of
deviant behavior, watch and notice the actions of their friends, and monitor
what they look up on the internet and what kind of media they read.

Sure this takes "personal" time, but being a Super Parent is worth it! Your
children will come to respect you in the long run. And when it comes time
for a parent teacher conference, the teacher will be doing all of the
talking, letting you know how great your kid is!